Wednesday, January 25, 2017

Machloket: How Jews Argue

The machloket (a way of disagreeing and debating) is a traditional way of exploring important Jewish values and practices on which we may strongly disagree.

The mindset of a machloket:

1. Arguing and debating ideas is an important way Judaism gives us to learn.

The goal is always to understand all the viewpoints and learn from them, even if we don't agree with them.

2. Challenging a person's ideas isn't rejection and isn't intended to humiliate. It is a way of clarifying and understanding The other person's point of view.

If you're trying to humiliate the other, prove them (not just the idea) 'wrong' or 'win' you aren't arguing according to Jewish tradition.

3. Being challenged openly, but with respect, gives you the opportunity of having your views heard and understood by others.

When you can show what you believe you gain the respect of others, even if they disagree.

Answering honest questions makes us stronger. We need to know "why we believe what we believe"

4. The goal isn't to make others agree with you - but to bring them to where they understand your point of view.

When you are through debating there should be no animosity or hurt feelings.

5. When making a statement, you should be prepared to back it up.

If you're unsure and looking for other viewpoints, it's best to do this as a question rather than a statement of fact. ("What do you think of...?" "Do you agree with?...Why?")

We see the value and power of the machloket in this Talmudic story from Eruvin 13b:

שלש שנים נחלקו ב"ש וב"ה הללו אומרים הלכה כמותנו והללו אומרים הלכה כמותנו
For three years, the House of Hillel and the House of Shammai argued. One said, 'The halakha is like us,' and the other said, 'The halakha is like us.'
יצאה בת קול ואמרה
A heavenly voice spoke:
אלו ואלו דברי אלהים חיים הן והלכה כב"ה
"These and these are the words of the living God, and the halakha is like the House of Hillel."
וכי מאחר שאלו ואלו דברי אלהים חיים מפני מה זכו ב"ה לקבוע הלכה כמותן מפני שנוחין ועלובין היו ושונין דבריהן ודברי ב"ש
A question was raised: Since the heavenly voice declared: "Both these and those are the words of the Living God," why was the halacha established to follow the opinion of Hillel? It is because the students of Hillel were kind and gracious. They taught their own ideas as well as the ideas from the students of Shammai.
ולא עוד אלא שמקדימין דברי ב"ש לדבריהן
Not only for this reason, but they went so far as to teach Shammai's opinions first.


Committing ourselves to practicing this traditional form of learning will make us stronger and increase holiness in the world, one. machloket at a time.

(Talmud text from Sefaria.org)

Sunday, June 28, 2015

Confronting The Sin Of Sodom

(June 29, 2015) Since Friday's Supreme Court decision making LGBT marriage legal nationwide, my Facebook feed has featured several postings on sodomy, Sodom, and God's judgment for 'the sin of Sodom'. I thought a blog post to help us identify exactly what the sin of Sodom was, and why it matters to us, would be a good idea.

Before we read through the Biblical account though, I'll ask you to clear your mind of a couple of things so we can look at the text without any predetermined 'filters' or obstacles. Granted, this isn't easy, but it's the only way to see the text clearly, without bias.

First, let's clear our minds of the filter that "homosexual acts are called 'sodomy'" While this is true today, and the equating of Sodom with gay sex acts has a long history, it's still a post-biblical association. You see, outside of the actual story in Genesis, neither the word 'sodomy' nor the connection of gay sex to Sodom, occurs in either the Hebrew Bible or the Greek Scriptures. In fact, the term 'sodomy' doesn't make its first appearance until 395 CE! So, for our look at the story, let's remove this filter.

Second, we need to remove the filters that come from having been taught this Biblical story and its moral(s) in the past. Whatever you've been taught about what's happening in the story, or what its moral or spiritual message is, are filters you need to put aside as you walk with me through these verses. For now, pretend you've never heard the story and you have no idea what will happen next. Let's read it fresh, with open minds and hearts, moving through it scene by scene from its unfolding to it's conclusion. Clear your filters, and we'll begin.

Ready? Let's go!

Genesis 19:1-16 (JPSTanakh)

1 The two angels arrived in Sodom in the evening, as Lot was sitting in the gate of Sodom. When Lot saw them, he rose to greet them and, bowing low with his face to the ground,

Here, Lot is 'sitting in the gate' of Sodom, a position of respect and authority. Disputes of local law were decided by those who sat in the gates of a city.

2 he said, "Please, my lords, turn aside to your servant's house to spend the night, and bathe your feet; then you may be on your way early." But they said, "No, we will spend the night in the square."

When Lot arrives, he 'pitches his tents near Sodom' (13:12), an indication of the wealth he arrived with. These men arrive with nothing but the clothes on their backs and intend to 'sleep in the square,' an indication of their poverty.
Why would they reject Lot's offer of hospitality? Could it have anything to do with the purpose of their visit—to 'go down to see whether they have acted altogether according to the outcry that has reached Me' (18:21)?

3 But he urged them strongly, so they turned his way and entered his house. He prepared a feast for them and baked unleavened bread, and they ate.

Lot persists in offering hospitality until they relent and accept. Had Lot not insisted, these strangers would've slept in the square. Lot feeds them 'a feast'

4 They had not yet lain down, when the townspeople, the men of Sodom, young and old-- all the people to the last man-- gathered about the house.

After Lot has fed these strangers, but before they're going to sleep, *every* man in the city gathers around the house. Why?

5 And they shouted to Lot and said to him, "Where are the men who came to you tonight? Bring them out to us, that we may be intimate with them."

Here, we have the first sexual reference of this story. What we don't know yet is 'why' this demand is occurring. Let's be clear here, this isn't a 'request for consensual sex', this is a demand for gang rape. One thing we know today about rape—it's *never* about wanting sex, it's about wanting power and control over the victim, subjugating and/or humiliating them! So how might that fact inform our story?

6 So Lot went out to them to the entrance, shut the door behind him, 7 and said, "I beg you, my friends, do not commit such a wrong. 8 Look, I have two daughters who have not known a man. Let me bring them out to you, and you may do to them as you please; but do not do anything to these men, since they have come under the shelter of my roof."

Two points to take note of in these verses: First, Lot continues his persistent hospitality, in closing the door behind him to protect his visitors while putting himself at risk, in pleading that they be left alone as his guests, and even by offering his virgin daughters in exchange for their safety. Second, Lot seems to believe that his virgin daughters are a trade that would pacify these men. How does this make sense if this passage is about the men being gay and demanding sex?

9 But they said, "Stand back! The fellow," they said, "came here as an alien, and already he acts the ruler! Now we will deal worse with you than with them." And they pressed hard against the person of Lot, and moved forward to break the door.

What does Lot 'coming as an alien' and 'acting the ruler' have to do with anything? How does it tie it with the mob's demand? Lot has obviously been heterosexual during his stay, with a wife and several daughters. This can't be because Lot isn't adhering to their gay lifestyle, so what's going on here? What has Lot done to cause them to threaten to 'do worse to him than them'?

All Lot has done so far is show persistent hospitality. He's said nothing to these men in judgment of them, sexually or otherwise

10 But the men stretched out their hands and pulled Lot into the house with them, and shut the door. 11 And the people who were at the entrance of the house, young and old, they struck with blinding light, so that they were helpless to find the entrance.

All the men of the city are, for the time being, kept from doing harm to Lot, his family, or the men who are his guests, when they are 'struck with a blinding light' after his guests pull Lot to safety

12 Then the men said to Lot, "Whom else have you here? Sons- in- law, your sons and daughters, or anyone else that you have in the city-- bring them out of the place. 13 For we are about to destroy this place; because the outcry against them before the LORD has become so great that the LORD has sent us to destroy it." 14 So Lot went out and spoke to his sons- in- law, who had married his daughters, and said, "Up, get out of this place, for the LORD is about to destroy the city." But he seemed to his sons- in- law as one who jests.

While 'all the men of the city' are light-blinded around his house, Lot's guests ask who else he has 'in the city' that need to be brought out and spared from destruction. Lot goes and speaks to his sons-in-law. Where? It would seem they're part of the crowd around his house who are blinded and groping! His sons-in-law don't sound much like gay men looking for sex. What else could be going on here?

15 As dawn broke, the angels urged Lot on, saying, "Up, take your wife and your two remaining daughters, lest you be swept away because of the iniquity of the city." 16 Still he delayed. So the men seized his hand, and the hands of his wife and his two daughters-- in the LORD's mercy on him-- and brought him out and left him outside the city.

If the city was engrossed in homosexuality, after surviving such a close call, why would Lot hesitate to leave? His wealth could have a hold on him, but after a near sexual assault of his guests, why not try to pack and take it with him? Why does he hesitate to leave at all, to feel safe enough to stay? Could his guests plans to be on their way be a factor? The guests eventually persist on bringing Lot's household out in much the same way he persisted in being hospitable.

So, now that we've read our central text, and raised a few questions that need to be answered about what might be going on in this text, we should see if there are other Biblical texts that can help us answer those questions and point us towards the underlying moral message of this story.

Ezekiel 16:48-50 (JPSTanakh)

48 As I live-- declares the Lord GOD-- your sister Sodom and her daughters did not do what you and your daughters did. 49 Only this was the sin of your sister Sodom: arrogance! She and her daughters had plenty of bread and untroubled tranquillity; yet she did not support the poor and the needy. 50 In their haughtiness, they committed abomination before Me; and so I removed them, as you saw.

In this passage, a rebuke of Jerusalem for her many sins, God declares 'this only was the sin of Sodom: arrogance—that they had plenty and were at peace (no need to hoard, as during war or unrest), yet they failed to support the poor and needy. It is because they committed this abomination that the Lord removed (destroyed) them!

Here we have an opportunity for the prophet to point out clearly what the 'sin of Sodom' was, and he does—only he says *nothing* about gay sex, or any sex at all for that matter! The prophet's rebuke is that they had the security and resources to take care of the poor and needy and instead were arrogant in their wealth. Period.

Pretty unexpected, right? But wait, there's more.

Isaiah 1:9-17 (JPSTanakh)

Like a booth in a vineyard,
Like a hut in a cucumber field,
Like a city beleaguered.
9 Had not the LORD of Hosts
Left us some survivors,
We should be like Sodom,
Another Gomorrah.
10 Hear the word of the LORD,
You chieftains of Sodom;
Give ear to our God's instruction,
You folk of Gomorrah!
11 "What need have I of all your sacrifices?"
Says the LORD.
"I am sated with burnt offerings of rams,
And suet of fatlings,
And blood of bulls;
And I have no delight
In lambs and he- goats.
12 That you come to appear before Me--
Who asked that of you?
Trample My courts
13 no more;
Bringing oblations is futile,
Incense is offensive to Me.
New moon and sabbath,
Proclaiming of solemnities,
Assemblies with iniquity,
I cannot abide.
14 Your new moons and fixed seasons
Fill Me with loathing;
They are become a burden to Me,
I cannot endure them.
15 And when you lift up your hands,
I will turn My eyes away from you;
Though you pray at length,
I will not listen.
Your hands are stained with crime--
16 Wash yourselves clean;
Put your evil doings
Away from My sight.
Cease to do evil;
17 Learn to do good.
Devote yourselves to justice;
Aid the wronged.
Uphold the rights of the orphan;
Defend the cause of the widow.

Once again, Jerusalem's wickedness is being compared to that of Sodom, and what is she told to do? End all sexual perversion? No, nothing about sex is mentioned here at all (even though the Bible addresses sexual issues with no hesitation elsewhere). Here, Jerusalem is told to:

Learn to do good.
Devote yourselves to justice;
Aid the wronged.
Uphold the rights of the orphan;
Defend the cause of the widow.

Hmm, here too it doesn't seem like Sodom's incredible sin, its abomination, had anything at all to do with gay sex...

So, what was *really* going on in our story?

See how this scenario fits both our reading in Genesis and these two passages on Sodom:

Instead of being a story about a city filled with homosexual men, whose evil ways were an abomination to God, this is a story about Lot violating the Sodom 'city ordinance' or 'code of conduct' that deliberately refused to welcome outsiders who were poor. A community where only those of means were to be welcomed. But Lot, in public defiance of this code, insists on welcoming and feeding two poor strangers, raising the concern—and anger—of the entire city that he was damaging their elite community!

With this understanding, their comments to Lot about 'coming as an alien' and 'acting as a judge' make sense. They're saying, "You came here as an outsider, and we let you stay (because of your wealth), but, now you're trying to change the way we run things so poor people will feel welcome here. Give us the men so we can humiliate them sexually, sending the message that the poor aren't welcome here. And because you've violated our way of life and welcomed the poor, we'll do even worse to you than to them!"

This scenario answers the questions raised in the central text in a way that's also consistent with the Ezekiel and Isaiah texts. Reading this as a story about sodomy just doesn't fit the core text, nor does it unite the three passages.

The moral message of the story of Sodom apparently isn't 'the evils of an LGBT lifestyle,' but, rather, the evils of arrogantly hoarding wealth and having apathy towards the poor—or rejecting them outright.

When we see the message of this story as condemning LGBT sex, it's easy for most Americans to evade moral soul-searching, since the LGBT community makes up only a small percentage of the population. However, if this story's moral imperative is about caring for the poor, the vast majority of Americans have some soul-searching to do to honestly apply this lesson to their own lives, as citizens of a nation with so much wealth—and so much poverty.

Yes, we need to confront the 'Sin of Sodom' in this country: the laws that make it a crime to feed the poor, the elite communities that lock their gates to 'those people', the affluent neighborhoods that refuse to let the working poor move in even though living in such a community increases their chances of working their way out of poverty, the tons of food we throw away each year as our neighbors go hungry, the lack of adequate low-income housing, the prosperous corporations who leave many of their workers on government assistance while they enjoy record profits, The 'poor doors' and 'back entrance access' buildings that humiliate the poor, the mandatory drug testing to receive public assistance (which costs more than it saves but serves to humiliate the poor), the judgmental attitudes we exude towards the poor, and the unkind—even cruel—words we speak to, and about, them.

We need to be upset by the 'Sin of Sodom' in America! Not the 'sin' of a SCOTUS decision on same-sex marriage, but the sin of our own greed and indifference towards those struggling in poverty, in need of persistent hospitality like Lot's...

Karla Worrell 

Sunday, March 29, 2015

Sacrifice, Service, and Sanctification—Thoughts on Leviticus 10



All of the events in Leviticus 10 - the unauthorized incense, supernatural sudden deaths, seemingly callous and disconnected commands, and the various silences - take place during the same detailed, ritualistic inauguration of Aaron and his sons begun in chapter 9 that included blood on earlobes, thumbs and big toes, etc. This particular ritual was, as I understand it, a combination of public installation, the 'activation' of a set means for communal cleansing/relationship with God and a hands-on 'boot camp' for actually performing the various activities correctly.

In the midst of this critical learn-as-you-do process, with Moses providing the ritualistic instruction in much the same way he had assembled all the parts of the Tabernacle as he was shown 'on the mountain' (Exodus 25:40, 40:17-35), Nadav and Avihu decide to add an incense ritual of their own—one not authorized by God nor instructed by Moses. Up until this point, as the sons of Aaron, their role had been to assist their father, the High Priest. Their authorized duties had included preparing sacrifices and bringing the blood to their father to use in the various ritual offerings and ceremonies. Not glamorous work by any means, but much more than the average Israelite, observing from a distance, was allowed to do in the service connecting God and man.

Whatever Nadav and Avihu's desired outcome: drawing closer to God, highlighting their willingness to serve 'above and beyond' the mundane, or a desire to be the focus of attention like their father, the result is the end of their lives and service to God altogether. As the prophets would later state, God desires obedience even more than ritual sacrifice (1 Sam 15:22) As priests, their job was to draw the Israelites towards God—not themselves. Disobedience, in this instance, could be seen as a form of idolatry—placing personal desires or ambitions (no matter how pure or worthy) before God's instructions and sovereignty—results in 'alien fire.' Motives matter, especially in a place of public leadership in the service of God.

This act of disobedience—stepping outside the bounds of Divine orchestration through Moses—demands a response from God who desires that those near to Him be humble enough to accept the instructions He gave Moses. God's intervention in speaking to Aaron with the command not to drink while performing this ritual service may be both part of the shakedown training and a way on asserting that God rather than Moses is the source of these rituals. The rituals serve a Divine purpose and not human need for the Divine alone.

Aaron is silent in shock/grief, but like Job, also in his refusal to blame God. Moses' silence, and later anger, rather than comfort, reflect his understanding of God's power and judgment and the importance to not only Moses, Aaron and the immediate family, but to the whole community that this process for providing individual and communal atonement be completely and correctly activated. However, Aaron understands that this is - and needs to be - about more than rote ritual for atonement and connection with God to be successful.

Ironically, Moses' and Aaron's very different approaches to relationship with God (Moses stressing of ritual perfection and Aaron's focus on the emotional components) does seem to have created a breach in their own relationship.

I don't believe I've presented a radical approach by any means, just a slightly different nuance to this text. However, I do believe this nuanced reading can teach us valuable lessons regarding our own contemporary struggles with religion and spirituality:

  • We need not choose between 'ritual' and 'emotional' fulfillment in our spiritual journeys or communities. Both have a role to play in our growth and connection to the Divine.
  • A community that seeks to be holy, to serve the Divine beyond just self-interest, requires those who are passionate advocates of ritual and tradition serving alongside those equally as passionate about sensitivity to human emotion and imperfection.
  • We can only be fully sanctified, reaching our full potential for service to both the Holy and the human, when we can accept others' perspectives and roles alongside our own and not see them as opposition to our own.



With gratitude to Rabbi Gary Creditor, whose Torah Study inspired this post, and to Rabbi David Mark for his input as I developed my ideas. I'm fortunate to count both among my teachers.

Monday, December 15, 2014

Life, Holiness and Community

LIFE isn't about 'what you have' 'where you've been' or 'the title you're called by'...
HOLINESS isn't following religious rules to perfection—the rules are the means, never the end...
SUCCESS isn't determined by what you've accomplished for yourself...

LIFE is drawing each breath, using each moment, in a way that makes the Divine evident to others (and yourself)
HOLINESS is being in a way that makes the Divine want to come near you, and those around you want to come near the Divine
SUCCESS is what you've worked with others to accomplish together

The GOAL is to repair the damage and fill the voids in the lives (individual and collective) around us by bringing the Divine close and shining Divine light on the broken and damaged pieces. The Divine light is not for us to draw attention to ourselves, but to keep focused on the need(s). Resisting the urge to stand in the spotlight is STRENGTH

COMMUNITY is holy, it's being like the Holy One
The Holy One loves individuals, but needs communities—large and small —to be fully present with us and sanctified in our midst
We were created, and are filled, with Divine life-breath, so we too need more than just the Holy One, we need one another—in all our diversity—as much as we need the Holy One

As we LIVE HOLINESS, COMMUNITIES that unite synergistically, are able focus enough of the light of the Divine Who is drawing near to usus, giving us wisdom, strength and hope to HEAL this world we have damaged. Achieving this GOAL sanctifies the Holy One in our midst.

The struggle isn't getting the Divine to defeat the Evil
The struggle is getting US to accept what LIFE, HOLINESS and SUCCESS realty are rather chase the counterfeit goals of possession, position, and power.

COMMUNITY is powerful. It doesn't take a large community to move a large obstacle or make long-term changes to society IF we keep the GOAL in sight.
HOLINESS is contagious. We are designed to respond to holiness and inspire one another to increase it.

If you've read all this and felt uplifted and inspired, don't leave without asking yourself THREE QUESTIONS (today and every day):

WHAT am I really living for each day?
WHO am I focusing the light with and on?
HOW can I increase true holiness in myself and my community?

It's TIME to make each day count and repair this world TOGETHER—Starting NOW!

[Inspired by learning with and from Rabbi Aaron Alexander, Reb Mimi Feigelson, Rabbi Shai Held and Rabbi Michael Knopf]

Tuesday, November 18, 2014

MOURNING

Some losses you mourn with tears and sobs
Some with community, closeness and memories
Some losses you mourn with silence and reflection
Some with commitment to transformation
Then there are the losses that are so profound
that mourning with all of these is still not enough


Karla J Worrell
November 16, 2014
In memory of Cantor Edward Cohen

Monday, May 5, 2014

Today I Am Reborn


Karla J Worrell
5 May 2014 / 5 Iyar 5774

Today, I am reborn
Acts of a human body
Renew an eternal soul
Ordinary becomes holy

Water and breath
Blessing and silence
Known and unknown
Past ending, future beginning

Today I am reborn

Tuesday, February 11, 2014

"Opening Beth-El's Doors - Jewish Disability Awareness Month"

Karla Worrell
Temple Beth-El Bulletin February 2014

When I asked if the SATO Committee had anything planned for Jewish Disability Awareness month in February, I didn't imagine the answer would include me writing a bulletin article. However, after ten years of participating in services, classes and events at Temple Beth-El with disabilities, I'm glad to share a few thoughts from that perspective.

At first glance, you'd see my canes and probably think that mobility issues from my Cerebral Palsy were my most significant challenge at Temple Beth-El. Even though accessibility is a consideration, it's been the disability that's not visible, and most recent, significant loss of sight from glaucoma, that's presented the greatest challenge to my participation in activities that I enjoy at Temple Beth-El.

The first time I leyned Torah was as part of Rabbi Creditor's Adult Bnei Mitzvah class of 2007, and I was hooked, increasing my skill and participation steadily. Then, just two years later, sudden and severe glaucoma left me with much less vision. I had to find new ways of doing many things in my daily life and in my davening and leyning as well. I was able to memorize many prayers, which made davening easier and more spiritual rather than a struggle. However, this wouldn't work with leyning, since the Torah scroll must be read. I wondered if I'd ever again be able to participate in something that was both very meaningful and enjoyable. I explored many visual aids, but they just got in the way. I realized that I could do readings from the bottom of the scroll's columns, but not the top. Then, Rabbi Creditor asked me to leyn the third aliya of Yom Kippur Minchah, which spanned the bottom and top of two columns. Though the scroll used is shorter than our regular Shabbat scroll, it was still a challenge! At one point, while practicing with Rabbi Creditor, he asked, "What do you usually do when you're having trouble reading?" From that question, the adaptations that have made me comfortable returning to leyning began.

On February 15th, I'll leyn the third aliya of Parashat Ki Tissa in recognition of Jewish Disability Awareness month. I no longer use the yad, but lean in close to the scroll. I also learn my aliya with more digital aids, including photos of the scroll itself, which allow me much more practice seeing the actual reading than I would be able to schedule with either Hazzan Marian or Rabbi Creditor.

It's taken many people's resources, ideas and support to allow me to return to doing what I love. When it comes to making a place for those challenged by disabilities, whether lifelong or relatively new, building accessibility is important, but it's only the first step. It's even more important that we be a disability-friendly community. Every person is different and deals with their disability differently. The best way to include someone, is to get to know them for who they are, and not just their disability. My passion for Judaism, along with many other interests, aren't a product of my disabilities, they're just who I am. It's not unusual for people with disabilities to keep their concerns and frustrations private. The best way to know what ways you, or others, can help is to genuinely get to know them. As you build relationships, you'll learn more about their challenges and needs as well. I hope, beginning with this Jewish Disability Awareness month and continuing into the future, all of us will work together to make Temple Beth-El not only accessible, but disability-friendly as well!